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The Art of Intuitive Listening

Listening to our intuition is easier than we think. The key is to remove the obstacles that muffle the voice of our sixth sense. These three simple lifestyle adjustments will sharpen our intuition—and honour our bodies—without us coming anywhere near the crystal ball.

TAKING IT SLOW

Our intuition is our inner ear. When our goal is to listen earnestly, we slow down, make a pot of tea and invite our friend over, right? Living at a slower pace is the cornerstone of psychic development. It’s what allows our sixth sense to become loud and clear. 

While admiring art at a gallery, we either pause thoughtfully or come to a complete stop. What if we think of our lives as important works of art? Slowing down makes us pay attention to the subtleties of our experiences, while our bodies receive the physiological benefits of mindfullness. 

A big part of living intuitively is simply being present for what is. Being in a rush makes us less receptive and limits the amount and quality of information we receive from our interactions, ultimately affecting our choices.

“The final block to psychic awakening is being too much in a hurry to stop and notice what is—what is going on around you and what is going on within you, ” writes Sonia Choquette in her book, The Psychic Pathway. According to Choquette, living more slowly serves as an invitation for guidance to come in.  

STRETCHING OUR LIMITS

An ancient Vedic aphorism states that infinite flexibility is the secret to immortality. “When we cultivate flexibility in our consciousness, we renew ourselves in every moment and reverse the aging process,” writes Deepak Chopra on his social media page. Developing physical flexibility, in particular, is great for budding intuitives.

Anyone who has ever tried stretching for a split is aware of the communication that opens up between our bodies and us. Because using our sixth sense requires our total presence, relaxing into what is—ouch, that right hamstring is so tight— helps us to engage with the present moment. We have no choice but to soften into what is. 

By bringing awareness to how we feel, we face our emotions and clear the slate for unbiased intuitive guidance to come in. When we go beyond our limits—physically and metaphorically—we discard limiting beliefs about the world and break out of the boxes we place ourselves, and others, in. Physical flexibility, in combination with mental stretching, is a sure recipe for expanding our consciousness. The more flexible and spontaneous we become, the more our psychic awareness blossoms.

EATING LIGHT

Have you ever had so much food in one sitting, you were ready to nap afterwards? Psychic development is all about staying awake and aware. Constant overeating overpowers our intricate energy system that works as a conduit for our psychic sense. Our focus goes elsewhere; namely: our stomachs. 

By overwhelming our bodies with physical sensations of overeating, we also decrease our sensitivity—while our goal as intuitives is to increase it. (That’s why psychics are often called sensitives.)

On a full stomach, we loose the ability to pay attention to the subtle energies that run through us, and how exactly they feel in our bodies. While we all perceive psychic guidance differently, overeating dulls intuitive perception for everyone.

Rumi wrote: “Put limits on how much you eat and how long you lie down.” Listening to our intuition is a sacred spiritual practice and discipline plays a vital role in spiritual growth. Because our bodies are the main receivers of psychic guidance, honoring them by exercising self-control ups the ante on our spiritual game. It’s a small change that goes a long way. 

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The Good in Routines and Rituals

It’s often the last thing we want to commit to. To our creative selves, the thought of structuring our days to adhere to routines feels like boxing ourselves in, to put mildly.

Many of us have the belief that routines are draining energetically—we have to put all this effort into maintaining them, and for what? The grumps inside us are not convinced routines are worth our effort: “Oh, to rise with the sun—what a waste of sleep!” And then our clever minds provide a list of excuses to support this claim, dragging that go-with-the-flow identity in for support. 

We don’t exactly see what we get out of routines, do we?

I don’t know about you, but for the longest time my perception of rules and routines was completely negative, and not factually correct. I was oblivious to the energetic power of routines and what they can do for me. I thought routines were a boring waste of time and my inner brat spoke negatively of them.

Some associations I had with routines were outdated; others, painful. The routine of getting ready for kindergarten each morning was not one I loved as a kid, combined with leaving my mom. In other instances, I focused more on the disappointment of having to do my homework—when I wanted to play instead—than the feeling of having my homework done.

In truth, while we do have to invest energy into establishing new routines, routines are designed to support us—not the other way around. Routines are for us, by us.

The routines we wish to establish today have a different energy about them altogether. The routines we want to establish today are for us—that’s one. They serve our goals and aspirations—that’s two. And they are a way for us to take care of us—that’s three. They are, in fact, our tools of support. They connect us—by means of small daily steps—to the bigger vision we wish to experience. Routines are love in action, in fact.

Do me a favour: next time you’re sitting on your meditation cushion or getting ready to go on that jog you don’t want to go on, take a moment to take in the fact that it’s you taking care of you. And do your best to feel good about it. Because many of us are in the habit of criticizing ourselves no matter what we’re doing, it’s important to feel good when we do perform virtuous actions. I say let’s bring mindfulness into the mix and allow ourselves to vibe in sheer satisfaction for a second. How else are we going to feel good about our life-transforming routines, right?

It also helps to remember why we want to establish certain routines in the first place. To remember that routines are not the main thing, but a way for us to get to the main thing. And that we can learn to love the repetitive process of doing them. Some Buddhist masters claim it’s a vibe.

We also forget that the structure in routines is perfect for grounding our creativity. Routines are the river banks to the creative river inside each of us. They keep us flowing in the direction we want to flow. 

This is why I love clarifying my priorities and aligning my actions with them. It’s as simple as writing down three things that matter most to me right now. Then, I can avoid feeling guilty about being unproductive because I know that rest is essential to productivity. See what I did there?

In summary, when we get clarity about what we want, switch up our daily actions, back it up with repetition, we are slowly but surely mastering this one lifetime we’ve got. I’m rooting for us.